aac aac michigan aba aba therapy add adhd advocacy android tablet apraxia asd aspergers augmentative communication autism autism and honesty autism therapy behavior therapy bilingual career ceo mom connecticut connecticut aba connecticut speech therapy ct autism therapy disability education empowering families empowerment fairfield coutny speech therapy giving hollyrod foundation honesty ipad keep the conversation going landria seals landria seals green learning disabilities mental health michgian michigan michigan aba michigan speech therapy motor patterns motor schema new mom nih study occupational therapy oral motor oral motor therapy parenthood parenting pediatric feeding pragmatic language psychology reading safe sippy cup slc therapy slp social communication social deficits social language social skills social thinking southeast michigan speech therapy special education specific language impairments speech deficits speech language pathologist speech language pathology speech therapy speech therapy connecticut speech therapy in michigan speech therapy michigan teamwork technology teletherapy thanksgiving therapy therapy on the web tutoring waiting for superman working mother work life balance
A passionate clinician, executive director, and entrepreneur with keen strategic and intellectual ability evidenced in professional accomplishments, clinical staff mentoring, and advising and teaching students, professionals, and parents across the country. Landria has the opportunity every day to work and live in her purpose by working and training people with special needs and their families. Landria is described as a dynamic, informative, energetic, and captivating speaker. She is a certified and licensed speech-language pathologist with specialties in autism, assistive technology, behavior, and communication. As the granddaughter of a woman who’s communication abilities were cut short by a massive stroke, she understands first hand the impact of impairment on the family. Landria is currently the owner and Executive Director of SLC Therapy, a private therapy firm located in Connecticut and Michigan focused on Empowering Families and Expanding Independence. Through her leadership at SLC Therapy, Landria has created dynamic and innovative programs for families that include Flourish!, a center based educational program for learners with autism, and the use of videoconferencing (Teletherapy) technology to provide families access to therapy service. In addition, Landria is focused on empowerment through partnerships with organizations to enhance community services. Landria is the creator of The Empowered Parent, a parent e-magazine focused on support for families of people with special needs. Landria was recently selected as a professional expert on a documentary focused on Autism in the African-American Community. Landria is the author of the social curriculum Keep the Conversation Going, which focuses on social cognition, conversation fluency, and social skills. Education B.S. Speech and Hearing Science University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign M.A. Speech Language Pathology Northwestern University Certified Speech Language Pathologist American Speech Language Hearing Association DIR Level 1 Practitioner Certification: Compton P-ESL Certificate: ADOS Training, University of Michigan-Ann Arbor PROMPT-Introduction Verbal Behavior, Dr. Vincent Carbone Achievements 40 Under 40 Business Professionals in Fairfield County 2009 Someone You Should Know Award, Bridgeport Black Pride 2007 People’s Bank Community Award 2006
Blog » Autism on the playground: Lessons from the Parenthood episode
This week was the season premiere of one of the shows I have a like/love relationship with: Parenthood on ABC. My love relationship is because its good TV. My like relationship is because I can’t stop being a therapist when I watch it. So true to form, I must provide lessons and strategies for playground success.
Truth be told it is a challenge for the person with social language deficits (whether its ADD, ADHD, Autism, Aspergers) to navigate the unwritten rules of the playground. More than that, therapists/coaches/psychologists teaching social skills groups must think about HOW they are teaching these skills. As a parent reading this, you would probably be shocked at how many hands do not raise or how many quizzical looks I get when I ask “Do any of you watch Phineas and Ferb, Do any of you watch Zach and Cody, etc?” As therapists teaching these skills, we must understand that teaching the skills of social behavior does not place the therapist as peer, but as coach. As a coach, we must know the social information that our clients need to know in order to better coach and facilitate the real skills of being social.
For therapists, refer to a past blog post on the social connection: http://slctherapy.com/blog/landria/the-social-connection/
In order to teach playground skills at any age range or skill level:
Parent tip: Make sure that your child’s social group (school, private) focuses on the importance of role play. Role play and getting up from the table will remove those kinks. AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, the therapist is coach…not peer. The therapist should not be creating mini-me’s or little adults but teaching and providing REAL information and feedback.
Therapist tip: Motor patterning and Role Playing. Excuse my small yell of encouragement...GET UP FROM THE TABLE! If we want our kids to be social...we have to get up from the therapy table. We need to have social postures: sitting, walking, playing, sports, hanging out and all those physical postures in between. Role playing is crucial as embedding social thinking does not mean thinking in solitude and the quiet...true social thinkers do this on the fly. They are walking and talking. They are dribbling the basketball and thinking and talking. They are gesturing and talking. We have to teach our kids to read and understand social information (using static pictures and short snipets of movies) as well as inhabit the motor pattern of what it means to participate socially.
Parent Tip: Make sure your child’s social language group is working not on changing them, but giving them flexibility in how they present. When you watch the Parenthood episode, it wasn’t that Max said “hello”. The social turnoff was when he said “my name is Max ___, (and extended his hand)”.
Therapist Tip: Move away from teaching the many ways to say hello. But have your clients/learners participate in lessons on perspective taking. Turn on You Tube..show formal/informal ways to say hello. Let them judge other people and use terms like Weird (Good Weird or Bad Weird), Great, Comfortable, etc. Get them to give you information on how they want people to feel when they are around, and let them work toward that.
Parent Tip: Raise your social expectation and barometer. Think about it, if my child did not have these social deficits..what would I tell them? How would I help them? Then , in the modified words of Nike, “Do just that!”. Why? Because they need you to teach them, model them, tell them the truth in love. And find places that work for them. I had a student who loved to ask people about the number of stairs, doors, etc. inside their house. Now the “normals” balk at the relevancy of such questions. My recommendation…find a club, group of kids that love to build things. That group (social deficits, normals, real/regular people who like to create) will be at ease with those questions…and as a parent you don’t have to manufacture or keep that playdate going. Rather, it is a natural meaningful situation that provides reinforcement to all its participants. The stage has been set for the natural relationship to emerge.
Therapist Tip: Stop hooking up your students by telling parents…”oh Susie and Laura would get along so well”. Instead, find the natural stage and allow the relationships to develop. Because (as a side note), what are you going to say to mom/dad when they don’t get along so well….
Here are a few of my past blogs addressing social communication:
Enjoy and Be Empowered,
Landria Seals Green, M.A., CCC-SLP